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So hey: where have I been in the meantime. Well, Below the Belt is on hiatus, but I'm now a blogger at Change.org. You can read the two pieces I have up so far--about a trans woman and the crappy treatment the DC police gave her, and more about our favorite douchebags, Roman Polanski and Bernard Henri-Lévi.

And over on Tiger Beatdown, where I am somehow now the Senior (non)Contributor, I have this trifle about "The Tudors." Enjoy.

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  1. Morag Eyrie

    Happy for you C.L.! And relieved for you.

    Really relating to a lot of this post. I am fairly recently freelance (about a year and a half) in a technical field, and I also find myself a bit more scared than I used to be about “pulling one out of the hat” (proper job or consultancy) when I need to. I am a cis woman, hence privileged that way- what I’ve noticed is how the ageing process chips away at ones acceptable line of femininity, professionally. They’ve just got us all, coming and going!

    It’s partly that femininity is defined in part as/by “youthfulness” by the culture. I think it’s also something to do with coming into your own, with some knowledge and experience and confidence and gravitas in a male-dominated field. This is much more threatening, or perhaps the word is disturbing or off-putting, than being one of the bright-young-things-up-and-coming. It doesn’t help that I went totally lesbo as I entered my middle years (after being an out and proud bisexual for most of my adult life). Sometimes I just don’t know how to pitch myself these days! And I’d never even considered the nails question- my cis privilege showing there- but I relate so much to those kinds of knife-edge decisions you talk about.

    Still, like you I’ve managed to pull one more out of the bag to keep me going for the time being- and some more offers have come in lately (that, frustratingly, I can’t take because the current job is too time-consuming- I wish the universe would spread ’em around the year a bit more, oh my anxiety levels!).

    Anyway, how glad I am to be hearing from you again and that things are looking up for you. I’m also grateful as ever for your wonderful thought-provoking writing.

    P.S. There was a blog post sometime in the last year about a woman freelancer who claims she got much more work, much more easily, when she posed as a man: by which I mean she sent in her resume as if she was a man; this was work where she didn’t actually have to meet clients in person. It was *so* depressing- so depressing in fact that I can’t be bothered digging it up at this time of night.

  2. Spatula

    Dear Cat, I am so pleased that you got a job! I know the OMG how long will my money last fear all too well, and I also get very depressed when this stressor occurs. And having to deal with the would-be employer’s reaction to trans stuff has got to be the suckiest cherry on top, ever.

    …I really enjoyed your piece on the Tudors.

  3. Christianne Benedict

    As a trans woman shading into middle age–well, more than shading; I’m there–I live in mortal fear of losing my job. I don’t have any kind of net. So I sympathize.

    The Polanski piece makes me feel guilty for paying to see The Ghost Writer a couple of months ago. I’m good at rationalizing, but when you get right down to it, you’re right about him and his position in the world.

    Anyway, I’m glad to hear that you’re getting back on your feet.

    Peace.

  4. Veronica Moonlit

    Congratulations on the new job.

    Personally, I would hope that the tech/IT field would be supportive of transfolks considering the goodly number of transgeeks, but there’s a fuckton of misogyny in said community.

  5. Steve

    Dear Cat, I am so pleased that you got a job! I know the OMG how long will my money last fear all too well, and I also get very depressed when this stressor occurs. And having to deal with the would-be employer’s reaction to trans stuff has got to be the suckiest cherry on top, ever.

    …I really enjoyed your piece on the Tudors.

  6. Mary Rae

    Glad to hear that things are looking up for you. We haven’t talked in what seems like forever (lost my numbers when my phone grew legs) and I was wondering how you have been.

    Mary

  7. Emily

    Congratulations on the new job.

    Personally, I would hope that the tech/IT field would be supportive of transfolks considering the goodly number of transgeeks, but there’s a fuckton of misogyny in said community.